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You have to realize that you might have contributed something, for the troubles and problems that now befall you.
It is important for you to know what you must do to overcome the problems that have come to you through various sources.
If your understanding is deep enough to overcome your responsibility for having caused the existing problem, you will certainly get the idea of how best to get rid of them.
Then you know how to handle troublemakers and your opponents. Those who oppose you also have a human heart.
Therefore it is not difficult to accomodate them; develop their friendship instead of isolating them.
If you are strong enough to resist their wrong attitude, then there is no reason to avoid associating with them.
Through your association with such people, you can influence them for their own betterment.
Remember that it is your own understanding that protects you from your enemies and allows you to guide them become good.
What is the use of all your education and your religious knowledge if you have not learned how to behave yourself as a real gentleman particularly at a time of trial?
When others do wrong to you, you must regards their ion as an opportunity for you to develop your patience and sympathy.
Patience is one of the prime qualities which everyone must cultivate.
The more you practise such a virtue, the more you will be able to maintain your dignity.
You must know how to make good use of your knowledge and principles to deal with people who are hostile to you.
Sooner or later, they will realise their folly and change their hostile attitude.
Sometimes, people try to take advantage of your tolerance and patience as signs of weakness.
That is the time for you to act wisely without becoming a victim to such cunning people.
Resource : Self & Your Problem Books by Ven Dr K Sri Dhammananda
You have to realize that you might have contributed something, for the troubles and problems that now befall you.It is important for you to know what you must do to overcome the problems that have come to you through various sources.
If your understanding is deep enough to overcome your responsibility for having caused the existing problem, you will certainly get the idea of how best to get rid of them.
Then you know how to handle troublemakers and your opponents. Those who oppose you also have a human heart.
Therefore it is not difficult to accomodate them; develop their friendship instead of isolating them.
If you are strong enough to resist their wrong attitude, then there is no reason to avoid associating with them.
Through your association with such people, you can influence them for their own betterment.
Remember that it is your own understanding that protects you from your enemies and allows you to guide them become good.
If a man does something wrong to you through his ignorance or misunderstanding, that is the most opportune time for you to show your wisdom, your education and religious understanding.
What is the use of all your education and your religious knowledge if you have not learned how to behave yourself as a real gentleman particularly at a time of trial?
When others do wrong to you, you must regards their ion as an opportunity for you to develop your patience and sympathy.
Patience is one of the prime qualities which everyone must cultivate.
The more you practise such a virtue, the more you will be able to maintain your dignity.
You must know how to make good use of your knowledge and principles to deal with people who are hostile to you.
Sooner or later, they will realise their folly and change their hostile attitude.
Sometimes, people try to take advantage of your tolerance and patience as signs of weakness.
That is the time for you to act wisely without becoming a victim to such cunning people.
Kindness, honesty, and patience are fertile grounds for cunning people to take advantage to their own benefit.
Resource : Self & Your Problem Books by Ven Dr K Sri Dhammananda
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